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Dressing For Success:
One Woman's Tips on the Right Clothes for an Interview
Aired August 4, 1999
This is INFOhio After Nine, I am David C. Barnett,
on the 4th day of August, 1999. For many of us, the idea of looking your
best for a job interview is just second nature, putting your best foot
forward and all that. But what if you've never done that? What if you've
never taken that step into the world of work? As a part of our year-long
series on "The Changing Face of Welfare," 90.3 correspondent Harry Boomer
spoke with a mother of three about what she's learned about dressing for
success.
Bonnie NewellYou just can't go job seeking
in summertime in a winter suit, because now they're looking at you on
a different level, she's not sure of her seasons, she might not be sure
about this job.
Harry BoomerFor many women on welfare, like
Bonnie Newell, getting a job is their job. For many on welfare, knowing
what clothes to put on seems a more daunting task than the job interview.
They know how to dress to impress, but they don't necessarily know how
to dress for success. There is a difference. Newell, a mother of three
young girls, knows that. She learned in classes designed to help her get
off welfare the do's and don'ts of proper attire.
BNMy wardrobe is like church style, so I
didn't need the Dress for Success because I go to church. Then my mom
passed away a couple years ago, so I have a lot of elegant things and
nice things in my closet that you just keep up.
HBNewell, who has been on welfare for seven
years, is getting close to Ohio's relatively new, three-year, lifetime
limit. She's had a couple of jobs as she struggles to work her way off
welfare. She has learned that what you put on affects the way you feel,
and that the way you feel affects the way you carry yourself, and how
you carry yourself is crucial if you want to be successful in landing
that all-important J-O-B.
BNYou don't go jobs with bright colors, you
know, it's nice to be a little mild, but not bright. When they can see
you when the lights are all off, they don't want that. Always be neat,
nice pantyhose, clean shoes, toes in, never go on an interview with your
toes out, never. Your hair done, your nails done, no dangly earrings,
professional style. No jewelry, don't be flamboyant with your jewelry.
That tends to take away from your interview because the people are more
or less looking at what you have on, instead of what you have to offer.
Spandex, the spandex dresses and things like that, that's not appropriate
for job seeking. Wear something lose, something not hanging off you, but
something comfortable, you know, real loose. I would say something like
an after-five, two-piece skirt suit would be nice, not an after-nine miniskirt
set. Just sell yourself. If you feel good and you look good, then you're
going to come off good. Your presentation to that company, that business,
will be good, it'll be professional, and that's what you need. You need
something professional.
HBAll common sense things if you're used
to thinking about getting up, getting dressed, and going to work on a
daily basis. But if that process is foreign to you, you have to learn
the language of job seeking. Newell has another common sense suggestion.
BNIf you know you're going to Winkleman's
tomorrow for a job interview, then slide by Winkleman's today, and see
how the crew, or I should say, the management dress.
HBShe says that way, you'll have a much better
feel for what's right for that particular work environment. While she
learned a lot of things in class about dressing for success, life has
taught her a few things as well.
BNYou cannot go out on a job or anybody's
interview taking your kids. You can't do it. That's going to be a negative,
I mean, the most major negative point towards your interview, because,
number one, they're looking at you, you might be dressed for the success,
you might have everything it takes to sell yourself right, make a good
presentation, but now, what's in that consumer's mind is, well, if I give
you a job, are you sure you have someone to watch your kids? You might
not make it to work every day, so that's a negative. I've been on about
three interviews, and I had to take my kids, because of the day care situation,
but I also explained a few things to the people during the interview,
nevertheless, I don't have the job.
HBAnd getting that all-important job is key
to her future and to the quality of life her three daughters, Briana,
Tiana, and Kiana, will have.
BNThey know, you know, don't think the kids
are not aware of moms and dads. When you have a bad situation, or everything
starts out looking pretty as roses, don't think that the kids don't know,
that now there's a blemish on that rose or something because they know.
HBPart of her challenge is to consistently
use the lessons learned to stay on the road to self-sufficiency. All is
not well. In my next report, I'll have an update on Bonnie Newell's roller-coaster
ride as she struggles to get off public assistance. For INFOhio, I'm Harry
Boomer in Cleveland.
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